I’m not in the mood – is that a problem?
Over the years, our society has somehow shaped the misconception that men should be in the mood for some bedroom action 24/7. However, being ‘in the mood’ relies on some complicated science that includes biological factors such as hormone production and psychological factors.
Sometimes fluctuating testosterone levels can have a negative impact on your performance, in which case you’ll need medical investigations to discover the cause and treatment. However, poor performance can also be the result of your lifestyle choices such as your diet, vices, and physical activity. Dr. Elliott also adds that mental illnesses such as anxiety and depression (which are concerningly common these days) can have a negative impact on a man that’s otherwise physically healthy.
Either way, opening up to a specialist about these concerns can help you find the solution that matches your problems.
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I experience Ed all the time
I can’t stop thinking if I were bigger down there if she would want me more often and I could please her more often?She just does not seem to care at all if we do it or not and we’ve talked, nothing is happening to make the act more frequent or at all we just don’t do it. She won’t go to counseling either, she doesn’t like talking about it to a stranger.I don’t know how to regain sex with her it’s been a long time in fact it’s been years.What’s wrong I feel it’s me that I just don’t get it done for her.
It may be her going through Menopause, or perimenopause. This can cause women to not even think about sex because of how our bodies are during this stage in our lives. Maybe you can go with her to one of her annuals’ appointments and bring it up. Lack of drive, etc.
After fifthly years my ex and I divorced. Definitely a lack of communication. She was 15 years older and I was 21 when we met in 1965. My mistakes looking back were many I could wright a book. She was married with two sons and I was very vulnerable and total lack of experience. So much to discuss and no one to talk too.
Flirt with her – like you used to, as if you’ve just met.
Ok, so you have tried everything to get your wife to respond to your advances and nothing is working. In my opinion, it’s time to look for sex outside the marriage. Based on the circumstances you describe you have every right to end your sexless marriage and go without any qualms or guilt try to find someone who is willing to engage in sex as often as you would like. You need to be a man and stand up literally and Figurelli for your needs.